Neighbors' Holiday Meal Invitation Timing Raises Questions

• Neighbors have invited a couple to a holiday meal on the same day every year for nearly 20 years.
• The timing of the invitations has sometimes been late, causing uncertainty about the event details.
• The couple is considering whether to proactively inquire about the event details before receiving the invitation.
• This situation has prompted discussions on etiquette and communication in social traditions.
• The issue has been raised in etiquette advice columns, indicating it is a common concern.