Dear Abby: Advice on Family Holidays and Past Relationships

• Dear Abby advises a reader on whether to attend family holiday gatherings.
• Another reader seeks advice on rekindling a relationship with an ex who is now single.
• The ex-partner was dumped over 10 years ago and is currently going through a divorce.
• The reader has been in a good relationship for the past four years while communicating with the ex.
• Dear Abby's advice focuses on the emotional and relational dynamics involved.